Emotions Move Us

Why is it that God can bring us out of the desert time and time again, but we still distrust who he is and forget what he has done? This is why God commanded the Israelites to take 12 stones from the middle of the Jordan River to build an altar as a reminder of who God is and what he did for them.  God didn’t ask the men to take twelve stones that were easy to grab on the edge of the river, he told them to grab twelve stones from the middle of the once raging river. He did this as a reminder that God isn’t just a deliverer, but an encourager. God doesn’t just bring us out of our struggles and hardships, he gives us courage in the midst of them. God doesn’t just wait for us to find our way out of the struggle, he joins us there. It’s difficult to see God in the middle of our struggle, so we need our community to point him out to us. When we are discouraged, all we can see is our overwhelming circumstances. But our community sees past our circumstances to our faithful God who is always with us. If we can be the kind of community that reminds one another of who God is and what he has done, we can be conduits of God’s courage to one another in the middle of our discouragement.  Reflection/Discussion Question: What “altar” can you build as a reminder of who God is and what he has done in your life?

In order to give courage, we first need to be able to recognize discouragement. Someone who is discouraged is someone who may be frustrated, easily irritated, annoyed, or negative. They might be set off by situations that seem trivial or insignificant, but discouragement infects all areas of our lives. Instead of reacting in grace, love, and encouragement to the discouraged, we often fire back negativity, insults, hard truth, and anger. It can be difficult to have compassion for a discouraged friend who is expressing it through frustration, but if we can diagnose it quickly, we may be able to offer a cure instead of more pain. Another symptom of discouragement is fatigue. Discouraged people are physically and emotionally exhausted. They may not be emotionally available. They may feel like the only thing they can give their energy to after a long day is to sit on the couch and stare at a screen. In this situation we often exacerbate the problem by offering “healthy living” suggestions such as working out, eating healthy, and making less lazy decisions. We misdiagnose discouragement and try to provide a worldly cure that further fuels the discouragement. In order to offer the cure that discouraged people need, we must to rely on God. If we rely on our own strength, we will retaliate with what we are receiving or fall into the trap of discouragement ourselves. In order to offer courage to those in need, we must rely on the source of courage. God offers courage that will never run out. He is the source of grace and selfless love that we need to bring to the discouraged. Reflection/Discussion Question: After reading the symptoms of discouragement, how have you treated people in your life who are discouraged?

I pray to God to start and end my day but often forget to seek him throughout my day unless I’m having a very difficult day. This past Sunday before I heard this message I had a moment where I didn’t know the right thing to do so I stopped I prayed and let God lead me to do his will .. and of course he showed up and guided me as he always does when I take the time to listen ..and then I came to service early to look at the book store where I purchased the very book Sunday’s message was about! God connects with me when I need it when I don’t want it and when I don’t slow down to see it he’s always next to me guiding me and places struggles before me to help me grow. This week I’ve been extremely intensional on accepting his guidance and trying to do the same for everyone I come in contact with. If I can show up for others as God does for me I hope that they can feel his grace and presence through me. That’s what I got out of this challenge anyway ❤️