My Mom, who is 86 years old is in an assisted living home. She has dementia and is very often incoherent. It is difficult some times to go visit her but I make it a point to go spend time with her on Sunday and help her eat her lunch. I often wonder if it even matters to her that I do this. I got the answer recently from my sister. She called to tell me after a recent visit that Mom told her that your brother comes to see me every Sunday.