When you find yourself alone in the midst of hardship, you have to evaluate your own commitment to deep friendships in your life. If you can’t point to instances where you have committed yourself to a few close friends, you’ll understand why you’re alone in your time of need. Our friends often mirror the kind of friend we are to others.
It’s not by our own strength or will that we are able to be loyal to our friends. Our commitment to others comes from our commitment to Christ. Jesus said, “As the Father has loved me, I have also loved you. Remain in my love. If you keep my commands you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love . . . This is my command: Love one another as I have loved you.” (John 15:9-10, 12, CSB). When we are committed to remaining in Christ, we remain in his love. When we remain in his love, we follow his commands. What are his commands? Love one another. When we wholly commit ourselves to Christ, we cannot help but commit ourselves, in love, to our friends.
Our commitment to Christ moves us beyond superficial friendships and into deep community that has the power to impact eternity. Who we commit ourselves to has the power to determine our eternity. If we commit ourselves to shallow friendships with people who want nothing to do with Christ, we will find ourselves easily drifting away. But if we commit ourselves to deep friendships with those who have their eyes fixed on Christ, we can’t help but follow. And those kinds of friendships don’t just impact our personal eternity, they impact the eternity of those around us, as we love others together and invite them into the deep community we share with other believers.
Reflection/Discussion Questions: Do you have these kinds of committed, deep friendships? Why or why not?
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