Meeting People at Intersections

Ephesians 2:14-16 says, “For he himself is our peace, who has made the two groups one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility, by setting aside in his flesh the law with its commands and regulations. His purpose was to create in himself one new humanity out of the two, thus making peace, and in one body to reconcile both of them to God through the cross, by which he put to death their hostility” (NIV). Though Paul is specifically talking about Jews and Gentiles, he is also speaking about us. If we aren’t Jewish, then we are Gentiles. We were “separate from Christ, excluded from citizenship in Israel and foreigners to the covenants of the promise, without hope and without God in the world” (Ephesians 2:12, NIV).  We were nobodies, speeding down the road of destruction that ended in separation from our Creator until God sent Jesus to reconcile us through his death on the cross. We did nothing to earn this or deserve it—he did it out of his love for us. He did so, not only that we would be reconciled to God, but that we would be reconciled to one another. Jesus is our peace who builds bridges of unity by destroying walls of hostility. He commissions us to carry on his work of reconciliation to reconcile the world to Christ. When the world is reconciled to Christ, they can also be reconciled to one another. This means that our work is not to be right, to win arguments, to share our opinions, or to lash out on social media. These build walls of hostility that Jesus died to destroy. Christ’s very work on this earth was to create a new people who carry on his work of reconciliation. As the Body of Christ, we must do whatever it takes to reconcile people to their Father who loves them. We must start asking ourselves: “Will this build a bridge, or build a wall?” When we enter into conversations, when we scroll through social media, when we speak to co-workers, when we share our opinion or perspective, when we develop relationships. Every day we have opportunities to build walls or build bridges. What are you building? Reflection/Discussion Question: Take an honest look at the way you’ve been interacting with others. Are you building bridges or building walls?

Whether we realize it or not, a lot of us carry wounds from our childhood. Even those of us who grew up in Christian homes know the scars of being raised by sinful and imperfect parents. While there are many ways to handle hurt and brokenness, Jesus offers forgiveness. You see, his gift of forgiveness is not just for your personal sin, but also a gift to extend to others who have sinned against you. When we forgive, we are offering this gift to those that may not have even asked for it or don’t deserve it at all, but we must remember how we received Jesus’s forgiveness. Romans 5:8b says, “While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Jesus died for us before we had the chance to apologize. So, while we may have every reason to hold onto bitterness against a family member, Jesus has more reasons to hold our sin against us. But he doesn’t.  Now, forgiveness won’t be easy. If it were easy, Jesus wouldn’t have had to die on the cross in order for us to be forgiven. When we feel the weight of Jesus’s forgiveness of us, we can more readily extend it to others. What we find, when we choose to forgive, is a newfound freedom. If we become people who extend forgiveness to those who deserve it least, we will become the very picture of Jesus dying for us all while we were still sinners. Just as we are to respond to his death with repentance, we can pray that our family members would respond to forgiveness with repentance that leads to reconciliation.  Reflection/Discussion Questions: Are you currently holding onto bitterness against someone? What will you do about it?

if you pray to God he will answers your prayers but not right away so you have to be patient and look for clues because he can talk to you directly or he will do it thru every day things like a single person or thing also he will always be there so you can ask and you can give it all to him and let him work and if he is working. he will give you signs

Ever since receiving our 1x envelope our family has been praying about who God would bring across our path to bless. Yesterday I received a phone call from an unknown number and immediately declined it figuring it was a spam call. Less than a minute later the number called again and I decided maybe I should answer the call. The gentleman on the line identified himself and said he had a delivery from a florist and wanted to make sure someone would be home to accept the delivery. I let him know I was home and as soon as I hung up I felt the nudge that this was who we were to bless with our money. After accepting the delivery my daughter and I spent a few moments getting to know James and a little of his story. He noticed my daughter’s red hair and shared that his son also has red hair. He went on to share that his son is nonverbal and he gave up his career to care for him. He then told us that he and his wife separated and she took his son to Ohio, tearfully he expressed that he missed his son. I told him that we had something for him and explained the 1x challenge. I explained to him that God sees him, God knows what he is going through and that God loves him. He became tearful as he expressed his thanks and gave me a big hug. My daughter and I were so blessed to able to bless this man and play a small part in showing him God’s love.