My father recently passed. We were never close. There were some things he did that traumatized me to this day. He never accepted me as his child. I was the “mistake” as his family likes to put it. On his deathbed I forgave him.I asked God to forgive me for holding so much hate inside for all these years. I am on a journey of healing now. Is it easy? No. I forgave my father for me. I forgave my father so I would not block my blessings . I forgave my father because my Father has forgiven me time and time again.