Distracted and not Present

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Jan 10, 2023

In our hectic and overscheduled lives, there always seems like there a lot of work to be done. Some of these things are good and right in their right place, but the problem occurs when we make them more important than spending time in the presence of Jesus. We focus on production and preparation rather than presence and connection. Mary prioritizes this connection with Jesus in Luke 10, even though the activities that are occupying Martha aren’t bad, unhelpful, or wasteful things; they just can’t take priority over time in the presence of Jesus.

Martha becomes increasingly annoyed that Mary is not helping out with everything that needs to be done to accommodate Jesus and the disciples. Verse 40 says, “But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, ‘Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!”’ Martha assumes that Jesus is going to be on her side, and see things the way that she sees things – because she figures that doing something is better than just sitting there and listening.

Verses 41 and 42 tells us how Jesus responded to Martha’s pleas to make Mary get up and help with all the tasks. “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” Jesus doesn't answer like Martha expects, instead he ensures that he makes it known that time with him is the most important things Mary can be doing.

Reflection/Discussion Question: Can you recall a time when you found yourself annoyed with someone who was prioritizing connection over production?

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