Hearing stories like this can usually do one of two things:
1. Inspired you: “Wow. She sounds like an incredible person. I don’t get how she can live so generously with so little. I wonder what it would look like for me to live like that.”
2. Cause you to keep it at a distance: “Wow. That’s incredible. Only certain types of people can live like that. When you don’t have much sometimes it’s easier to think the way she did because her experiences have taught her that. That was a cool story.”
The reality is, both responses actually keep the story at a distance because stories like this inevitably make us uncomfortable. Why? They can make us feel guilty or inadequate. We begin to think about how we don’t live or think that way. We make concessions or excuses to get ourselves out of the responsibility of living the same way.
Hearing a story such as this tends to expose our stingy, greedy, fearful hearts. We have become like toddlers with their toys: “That’s mine!” We don’t want to share what’s ours, because we want to keep it for ourselves. We work hard to grow our own comfortable lives. We hold tightly to what we’ve been given for the fear of what will happen if we lose it. But all along we are taking what God has given us and acting as if we did something to earn it. You have money because you worked hard in your job to earn it? No. You have money because God blessed you with the ability to work and the job that paid. It is all a gift from God and can all be taken away in an instant.
Just as Job said when he lost everything: “‘Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked I will depart. The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away; may the name of the Lord be praised’” (Job 1:20, NIV); we must be reminded of the sober reality that we came into this world with nothing and are leaving with nothing. What matters in between the coming and going is the eternal work that we engage in to bring the kingdom of heaven here on earth. If we start with the mentality that nothing is our own and God will always provide, we can open our hearts to the kind of free generosity God calls us to.
DISCUSSION/REFLECTION QUESTION: What was your initial reaction to hearing Matt’s story about his mom? What does that reveal about your heart towards giving?
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