One day my family and I were at a restaurant when we started to smell the comforting scent of a bonfire. I could hear people around me saying, “I love that smell.” No doubt because it brings fond memories of fall bonfires or a crackling fireplace in the winter time. But quickly the smell started to get stronger, more stifling. The air thickened and darkened as smoke rolled in. So much so that people started to leave because they couldn’t stand the smell. We soon found out that a house in a nearby neighborhood was on fire. Suddenly this fire that had brought comforting memories became devastating, destructive, and frightening.
Sexual desire is a fire that can be freely satisfied and enjoyed when lived within God’s design, but it has the power to burn down the house if it isn’t tamed. To the world, this seems drastic, old-school, and prude. The world would tell us that the fire of sex doesn’t need to be contained, tamed, or controlled. To do that would be to deny ourselves of what makes us human. The reality is, God has a higher view of sex than humans do. He created it for our enjoyment, he calls it good, and he wants his creation to fulfill their sexual desires with one another. But just as everything else in God’s creation has a specific purpose and design, sex was created to be enjoyed within the context of a covenant marriage.
God is Creator and King. When he created the world, everything flourished under his control. When we choose to go our own way, we go against the Creator and against the way he created us to live. Nothing can flourish outside of God’s design, therefore, sex can only be destructive outside of his design. Just as a fire cannot be mildly contained in a dry forest, sexual desire cannot be acted upon in a neutral way apart from God.
Reflection/Discussion Question: How have you/do you see sexual desire like fire in your own life or in the world?
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